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Debbie
Pestka
(Spanish, Chemistry & Biology
Major - Class of 2009)
My Unforgettable
Bolivian Experience
As
part of my scholarship, I had Spanish lessons for four hours a day five days a
week for the entire eight weeks that I was in Bolivia. My school was pretty
small with a maximum capacity of 40 students. They also had a limit of five
students per class but with an average class size of two students. However, the
whole time that I was there, I was the only student in my classes. Here in the
U.S., my college class sizes have ranged from ten people to well over two
hundred so to have that one-on-one interaction with my professor everyday was
such a unique and wonderful experience for me. Normally, I’m a rather timid student
and as such I usually seek help or ask a professor a question outside of class.
So to be the only student in my class where I was frequently asking questions
and constantly conversing with my professor helped my Spanish immensely.
Half
the time my professor and I weren’t even in the classroom, but rather walking
around Sucre trying different foods, going to museums, exploring the local
markets, and truly experiencing Bolivian culture. Many Bolivians are very
superstitious so a favorite Bolivian hot spot of mine was the witch’s market.
There you could have your fortune read by cracking an egg into a glass of beer
or buy things such as a llama fetus to burn in your house to bring you good
fortune. People often ask me what my favorite part of my trip was and I always
respond with my Spanish classes. Part of what I love about studying Spanish is
learning about different cultures so to experience Bolivian culture firsthand
and to learn about it from an actual Bolivian was priceless to me.
While
I was in Bolivia, I lived with a host family which consisted of three
fifty-something sisters, Marina, Gloria, and Nelly, along with Nelly’s husband
Kiki, and their two daughters Ingrid (18) and Viviana (17). Not only did my
Bolivian family allow me to stay in their home for eight weeks, but they
genuinely made me feel like part of the family. One of the highlights of my
trip was the day we celebrated my birthday. That morning I ate breakfast with
the family as usual and because no one had mentioned or said anything about it
being my birthday, I just assumed that they had forgotten. However, when I got
up from the table to go to school, they all stood up and each one of them gave
me a hug and wished me a happy birthday. Then at lunch that afternoon my host
mom brought me flowers and gave me a big hug and said that even though my
American family wasn’t there, I had my Bolivian family and that they were very
proud of me and wished me only the best. After lunch, they brought out a cake
for me and sang to me twice, once in Spanish and once in English (or rather an
attempt at singing to me in English). I then took part in the Spanish tradition
of “morder la torta” where my host sister held the cake up to my face and told
me to take a bite out of it only to push the whole side of the cake into my
face. I also spent one afternoon making “buñuelos,” a doughnut-like pastry,
with Marina, Gloria, and Nelly. They told me that the recipe had been in the
family for generations and that it was a secret family recipe but because I was
now a member of the family I could have it. When it finally came time for me to
leave we all cried as we said our goodbyes but they told me that their home was
my home and that I was a member of the family and could come back and stay with
them anytime that I wanted.
To study abroad in a foreign country is an incredible experience. Nevertheless, when you come from a country where we’re easily in contact with our friends and family with the internet and cell phones and then to go to another country where that is not the case can be difficult. Then take that and add in a language barrier and a totally different culture and it can be very challenging at times. But after everything is said and done, the experience makes you into a much more independent person with a new set of appreciations, a different outlook on how you view the world and the people that live in it, and it makes you into a stronger person in several aspects. I was fortunate that I had a pretty solid background in Spanish before going to Bolivia. This enabled me to travel independently but more importantly, it gave me the opportunity to actually talk with and listen to the stories of Bolivians. One of the most rewarding things that I was able to take away from my trip was the connections that I was able to make with the people that I met, including my host family who I still keep in contact with today. I am just very thankful to my Spanish professors at MSUM for giving me such a strong foundation in the Spanish that I have and that allowed me to truly benefit from a remarkable 8 weeks in Bolivia.
